Five Years Ago
Posted on October 16, 2006 by Ching under Family, Life.
I found an old journal entry from No. 2305. I thought I’d repost it here. Sometimes we can learn a lot from looking back at the past. Sometimes it’s just fun to poke fun at ourselves. Enjoy.
2001 HIGHLIGHTS
The Good, the Bad and the UglyBought a house. Brian and Kevin shared a two-bedroom, two-story townhouse. They had just moved there when Brian and I started seeing each other. I officially moved in with them in January of 2000. We lived there for over a year and then one day, Brian woke up and decided he had had enough of apartment living. He was tired of the loud, annoying neighbors. We were totally unprepared.. We didn’t have any down-payment money saved up, but we were both able-bodied and had excellent credit, so we felt sure that we would be able to qualify for a reasonable home loan. We did. We moved into to our very own house on the 14th of April 2001. That’s where we currently reside with our lovable cat, Hobbie. 2305 Farmstead. It was the first house that we could agree on and it satisfied all of our requirements: three bedrooms, two full bathrooms, two-car garage. It is small and doesn’t have a basement, but it is large enough for the three of us (Brian, Hobbie and I).
Got engaged. The proposal came as a surprise, but wasn’t totally unexpected either. I know this sounds like an oxymoron, but there is no other way to describe it. Let me explain. Brian and I had always talked about getting married — eventually. He never really proposed (up until then), but we knew that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. We had talked about getting married, having children (and grandchildren) and growing old together. He knew that he didn’t have to propose.. Because I already knew how he felt about me. But on Sunday, May 6th, he arrived at my work. Armed with three red roses and determination, he proporsed. My engagement ring consisted of a princess-cut diamond with baguettes on either side and it was set in platinum. It’s very beautiful. We had to take it back to Zales for sizing, though, because my fingers are tiny. Now, do you understand why I say that was suprised, but then I wasn’t?
Hosted a successful house-warming-slash-birthday-party. We had to post-pone it several times because we wanted to make sure everyone could attend. There were lots of things going on in everyone’s life, so we weren’t able to have it until June (two months after we had actually moved in). By then it was time for Brian’s birthday, so we ended up having a combination party. Brian had gotten his birthday present from me a couple of months prior. I bought him a 60″ TV with my tax-refund money. We had it delivered the day that we moved in, but he knew it was to be is 27th birthday present. It’s a present that he won’t soon forget and that I probably will never be able to match in this lifetime. The family room is now dubbed the BAT-room (kind of like the bat-cave, only in this case, BAT stands for “BIG ASS TV”). We spend most of our time in there.
Matt and Jen separated. As my relationship with Brian flourised, Jen’s (my sister) relationship with Matt (now her ex-fiancé) fell apart. Their wedding, which had been planned for September 2001, ended up getting canceled. They have a child, Logan, who is primarily in Matt’s care. My mom baby-sits him sometimes. He turned one in July. We got him a wooden rocking horse, which he loves, for his first birthday. After their separation, Jen moved back in with our parents. Up until then, she and Matt were living together. She lived with mom and dad for about a week before getting kicked out. She’s kind of a pain-in-the-ass, childish and irresponsible. She lived on her own for the rest of the year, but spent the night at our parents’ house every now and then. Mom and dad feel sorry for her though, so they’re allowing her to move back in again. Hopefully, she’ll be more respectful this time around.
Betty and Clark’s 60th wedding anniversary. Betty and Clark invited us all to join them at the Crown Uptown Dinner Theater to celebrate their 60th anniversary. Dave and Donna (Brian’s parents), Kevin and his girlfriend Stephanie, Brian’s Uncle Kenny and his wife Laura, and Brian and I all came. The host does announcements before the show and he greeted Betty and Clark a happy anniversary (they were given a free specialty drink in a commemorative goblet on the house), Clark a happy birthday (their anniversary just happens to fall on the same day as his birthday) and me a happy birthday also (I didn’t get a free drink, though). It was really neat! The food wasn’t that great, but the show was awesome. I really enjoyed myself. We watched a local production of Sweet Charity, which I hadn’t seen before, and I liked it a lot.
Our first Christmas in our first house. We got a four-and-a-half foot pre-lit artificial Christmas tree as our first tree. Donna had loaned us some Christmas ornaments, so we used some of that. We also used the ornaments that Brian’s grandmother had given me in the past. We had to buy our tree-topper and some gold-bead garland, but everything worked well together. The end resuld was a cute but beautiful first Christmas tree. We spent Christmas Eve at my parents’ house, as was the tradition, but we hosted Christmas Day at our house. Everyone (Brian’s grandparents, Kevin, his parents and even their dog Sally, and then later that same day, my parents, Jen and one of Kevin’s friends) came. They all seemed to enjoy themselves, so I guess it’s safe to say it went well. I don’t know if we’ll host it again this year.. We’ll see.
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Believe it or not I forgot. I thought fall break was thru Wednesday. I have been out of it all week, though. I think I have walking pneumonia or something.
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Jenni on October 19, 2006
Am I assuming correctly that your flying rats had more baby flying rats? Little breeding monster freaks! Hahahahahah! Ray was concerned that you were sick, hoping you were just busy. Let us know.