{"id":9687,"date":"2013-04-26T18:08:48","date_gmt":"2013-04-26T23:08:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=9687"},"modified":"2013-04-26T18:30:35","modified_gmt":"2013-04-26T23:30:35","slug":"im-talented-at-being-annoying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=9687","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m Talented at Being Annoying"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Last night I shared with Brian some of the things I&#8217;ve learned in Leadership Elite over the last few weeks. I told him that talent is more important than experience, education, and intelligence when selecting someone for a job. I told him that even the most menial jobs require talent. He didn&#8217;t buy it. <\/p>\n<p>I read him some excerpts from the book that we&#8217;re reading in class, <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0684852861\/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&#038;camp=1789&#038;creative=390957&#038;creativeASIN=0684852861&#038;linkCode=as2&#038;tag=lifeafter-20\" >First, Break All the Rules: What the World&#8217;s Greatest Managers Do Differently<\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.assoc-amazon.com\/e\/ir?t=lifeafter-20&#038;l=as2&#038;o=1&#038;a=0684852861\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" style=\"border:none !important; margin:0px !important;\" \/> (much to his dismay). He was like, &#8220;I just want to play my video games and kill stuff.&#8221; LOL. I finally left him alone but resumed our conversation this morning in the shower.<\/p>\n<ol><strong>I asked him the following questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n<li>Is there a 4th of July in Mexico?<\/li>\n<li>If the doctor gave you three pills and told you to take one every half hour, how long would they last?<\/li>\n<li>How many species of each type of animal did Moses take into the ark?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Guess what. He got all three questions wrong. I told him that it&#8217;s not him. It&#8217;s because of his filters. Our filters are the building blocks of our talents. He was like, &#8220;Not this again!&#8221; Did I mention that he really hates it whenever I go through training?<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, I did get him to agree that he has a talent for organizing things. He can bring order to the most chaotic of environments. His desk is always neat and organized. He&#8217;s even helped me clean and organize my own desk. When there isn&#8217;t an organized process for doing things, he creates one. When I look at my messy closet, I am overwhelmed; yet he can organize everything within minutes. Organization is not just something he is good at &#8212; he&#8217;s talented at it.<\/p>\n<p>I thought for a moment and asked, &#8220;So what&#8217;s my talent?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Being annoying,&#8221; Brian replied. After I glared at him and we laughed together, he admitted, &#8220;Actually, you are talented at learning things.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I think he&#8217;s absolutely right. It explains why I learn choreo in Zumba really quickly. It explains why I love going to school. It explains why I&#8217;m always eager to receive training and acquire new skills. It explains why I enjoy getting up early on Saturday mornings and sitting in a Spanish class that I&#8217;m not even enrolled in. It explains why I embrace new information rather than rejecting it. It&#8217;s not because I&#8217;m gullible or impressionable, though I am at times. It&#8217;s because I&#8217;m an empty cup ready to be filled. I&#8217;m a sponge that just wants to soak things up. I am this way because I have a talent for learning (or so we&#8217;ve concluded).<\/p>\n<p>You know what excites me most about this revelation? I just <em>learned something new<\/em> about myself.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>FOLLOW UP:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While I was typing this post, the doorbell rang. Brian answered the door and talked to the guy outside. <\/p>\n<p>I was like, &#8220;Who was that?&#8221; Apparently it&#8217;s some guy going door to door, offering lawn care services. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That would suck,&#8221; he said. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What?&#8221; I asked. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Going door to door.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Not if you&#8217;re talented at it!&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>And that, my friends, is the reason why talent is important when hiring someone to do a job.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last night I shared with Brian some of the things I&#8217;ve learned in Leadership Elite over the last few weeks. I told him that talent is more important than experience, education, and intelligence when selecting someone for a job. I told him that even the most menial jobs require talent. He didn&#8217;t buy it. 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