{"id":781,"date":"2007-09-30T11:37:48","date_gmt":"2007-09-30T17:37:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brubakers.us\/blog\/?p=841"},"modified":"2007-09-30T11:37:48","modified_gmt":"2007-09-30T17:37:48","slug":"keeping-romance-alive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=781","title":{"rendered":"Keeping Romance Alive"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"noadbriteinline\">\n<p>Brian and I often get mistaken for newlyweds.  When we tell others that we\u2019ve been together for over eight years \u2013 one year of dating (actually more like a few months), two years of living together and five years of marriage \u2013 they usually can\u2019t believe it.   They want to know what our secret is.  There\u2019s really not a big secret or method to it.  Brian and I just make sure we set aside time do fun things and we always celebrate milestones.  We don\u2019t necessarily spend money on gifts for anniversaries, but we invest in memories.  Our philosophy is that any new toy or trinket you have will only last a few years (if you\u2019re lucky) before you grow tire of it or it breaks.  Memories, on the other hand, last a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>These celebrations \u2013 for anniversaries, birthdays, holidays, etc. \u2013 need not be expensive.  There are many resources on the internet that will give you ideas.  <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.romanceforeveryone.com\" >Romance for Everyone<\/a> is one such web site.  They have many tips on how to cultivate love and <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.romanceforeveryone.com\/article\/how-to-romance-your-wife.html\" >romance<\/a>, articles on relationships, and samples of love letters.  The web site also has sample &#8220;<a target=\"_blank\" href=\"http:\/\/www.romanceforeveryone.com\/love-letters\/i-miss-you.html\" >I miss you<\/a>&#8221; and &#8220;I&#8217;m sorry&#8221; letters, perfect for times when flowers aren&#8217;t enough to convey how you feel.  Although it\u2019s better if you write your own, the sample love letters are particularly helpful to those of us who are not so creative or don\u2019t have a talent for letter-writing.  At the very least the sample letters will help to inspire you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><img src=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/26eccj\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Brian and I often get mistaken for newlyweds. When we tell others that we\u2019ve been together for over eight years \u2013 one year of dating (actually more like a few months), two years of living together and five years of marriage \u2013 they usually can\u2019t believe it. They want to know what our secret is. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10,15,22],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/781"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=781"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/781\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=781"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=781"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=781"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}