{"id":29907,"date":"2025-04-18T11:09:11","date_gmt":"2025-04-18T16:09:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=29907"},"modified":"2025-04-18T11:09:11","modified_gmt":"2025-04-18T16:09:11","slug":"another-rite-of-passage-completed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=29907","title":{"rendered":"Another Rite of Passage Completed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been a total slacker. <a href=\"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=29846\" >Our new recliner was actually delivered over a month<\/a> ago and we&#8217;ve been enjoying it ever since.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/54388477895\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/54388477895_daea034a91_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>We had to rearrange our furniture to make room for it. The new recliner basically replaced the loveseat that was in front of the fireplace in our kitchen area. This space has evolved over the years. When we first moved in over 12 years ago, we just had a chair and a small ottoman in this space.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/8009337272\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"IMG_4457\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/8171\/8009337272_490e2280c3_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"IMG_4457\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not long after, we added a rug we found at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pier1.com\"  rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Pier 1 Imports<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/8628258894\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/8387\/8628258894_34f2db896a.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Because this space has the only fireplace in our house, it quickly became our favorite spot. In our first few years of living in this house, with all the areas you could possibly lounge in, we would fight over this one chair. When I say fight, it&#8217;s not really argue. Mostly we would try to beat each other to the chair. Often we would just resign into squeezing both of our asses in the chair. So much space in the entire house and both of us would be squeezed in this one chair. I think our only saving grace was that we were both still quite skinny back then. <\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/39039141440\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/822\/39039141440_64ce6418be.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the original configuration &#8212; we had the loveseat part in the living room and the chair in the kitchen area in front of the fireplace as shown in the above photo.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49784948473\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49784948473_fff526d968_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As of the end of 2020, we still had the single chair in that spot. However, I think the pandemic was the catalyst. We were spending a lot of time at home and we both wanted to sit in the same chair and, while we were making it work, it really wasn&#8217;t that comfortable. <\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/50660129333\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/50660129333_c6bcbe9400_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/50660129288\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/50660129288_cd8f21f2af_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We pulled the trigger at the beginning of the next year, and swapped the position of the loveseat and the chair. We could finally sit together in front of the fireplace!<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/51180866973\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/51180866973_f8f42c0a23.jpg\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Saki appreciated the change as well.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/51389198381\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/51389198381_b053ab27e9_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Our furniture has been in this configuration for the four years or so until Brian&#8217;s cancer treatments late last year. After spending a couple of months lounging in a comfy recliner during his chemo treatments, Brian decided he wanted one. <\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/54242409548\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/54242409548_6366f0c1a1_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We shopped around a bit and then finally pulled the trigger last month but had to wait a couple of weeks for delivery. The night before we moved the loveseat to the living room with the rest of the furniture. <\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/54387841932\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/54387841932_d97804b989_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><script async src=\"\/\/embedr.flickr.com\/assets\/client-code.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>I was hesitant at first because I was worried that the living room would get too crowded but there&#8217;s actually enough space for everything, surprisingly.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/54388104056\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/54388104056_de5c997358_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I had always associated recliners with old people but I suppose we fall under this demographic now. Anyway, we&#8217;ve been enjoying this loveseat ever since and I can&#8217;t believe we waited so long to get one. It&#8217;s so comfy! <\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/54388952603\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/54388952603_9247a1717f_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Even Saki loves it. <\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/54402623437\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/54402623437_440d56a337_c.jpg\" width=\"500\" alt=\"Untitled\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been a total slacker. Our new recliner was actually delivered over a month ago and we&#8217;ve been enjoying it ever since. We had to rearrange our furniture to make room for it. The new recliner basically replaced the loveseat that was in front of the fireplace in our kitchen area. This space has evolved [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[10],"tags":[275,898,3761],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29907"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29907"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29907\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29918,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29907\/revisions\/29918"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}