{"id":22379,"date":"2020-03-28T17:23:12","date_gmt":"2020-03-28T22:23:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=22379"},"modified":"2020-03-28T17:23:19","modified_gmt":"2020-03-28T22:23:19","slug":"my-final-days-of-freedom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brubakers.us\/?p=22379","title":{"rendered":"My Final Days of Freedom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I tried to get as much playing in as I could in the weeks leading up to the 30-day stay-at-home mandate in Sedgwick County. Several of our usual haunts had already shut down and there were only a couple of places left to play.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49675093832\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49675093832_8e25dd2a56.jpg\" alt=\"Untitled\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I played at Hoops, which isn&#8217;t even a place I would normally play at, a couple of nights. One night with the guys and then the next night with my girlfriends.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49677421448\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49677421448_3b759521d3.jpg\" alt=\"Untitled\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The night I was out with the girls, we decided to go to Stearman Field for dinner after. Here&#8217;s a fun #SocialDistancing pic that we took out on the patio.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49677578108\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49677578108_81a5a8dd83.jpg\" alt=\"Untitled\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Here are some pictures of dinner.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49678052196\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49678052196_149088b167.jpg\" alt=\"Untitled\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49678051286\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49678051286_0c65e443c8.jpg\" alt=\"Untitled\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It was a Thursday night, a week before things got really serious. But even then, we were being very careful. We disinfected the balls carefully between games, sanitized our hands, and practiced good social distancing.<\/p>\n<p>The next day, I spent six hours at Nahola. I had my final one-on-one training with Chris, played the Friday night open play from 5-7 PM, and then played in Debbie&#8217;s 7-9 PM private game. I was trying to squeeze every bit of pickleball I could play, fully expecting that my days of playing were numbered.<\/p>\n<p>Nahola followed the other gyms and eventually closed also but they honored our reservations for the weekend. On Saturday I played with Debbie, Cameron, and Tommy and then on Sunday I played with Debbie, Tiffany, and Amy. I had a great time but it was bittersweet because I knew these were going to be my last games. We knew that it was only a matter of time before a 30-day stay-at-home order would be issued for our community.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49684010456\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49684010456_b08c123658_c.jpg\" alt=\"Untitled\" width=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The best thing about playing that weekend was running into Lori Belew at Nahola. She gave me her Mid-South tournament shirt. I was so thrilled. She&#8217;s one of my pickleball idols and to have something that came from her felt truly special.<\/p>\n<p>The funniest thing to happen that weekend was when Tommy, Debbie, and I went to grab a bite at Merle&#8217;s after pickleball. Donnie and Tiffany happened to be there. They were already seated at a booth when the server asked if they were waiting for their pickleball friend to show up. They were regulars at Merle&#8217;s because this was a favorite spot after Friday night pickleball. I had never gone with them because I usually go straight home after.<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, the server told them that their friend (Debbie) just walked in with her two kids (me and Tommy). That was hilarious! We had a kick out of it.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/ching\/49684353487\/in\/datetaken\/\"  title=\"Untitled\"><img src=\"https:\/\/live.staticflickr.com\/65535\/49684353487_299cf25a42_c.jpg\" alt=\"Untitled\" width=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a picture of my club sandwich that day. It was delicious. It had been over ten years since I had been to Merle&#8217;s. My friend Jan first introduced me to the restaurant and we went there a few times for lunch back when we worked together. I had also been there a couple of times for bar poker years ago (back when bar poker was thing) but Brian doesn&#8217;t remember it. There were several restaurant closures in the last month. Merle&#8217;s was one of the few places that remained open.<\/p>\n<p>The five of us had a great time eating and visiting. This was the last time I got to spend time with Tommy, Donnie, and Tiffany. I know I&#8217;m being overly dramatic but I really miss playing pickleball and I really miss my friends.<\/p>\n<p>Debbie and I made plans to do some drills on Monday night but something came up and so I didn&#8217;t play. We did get together for drills at Seneca Park on Tuesday night. We ran into Dave and Lori Belew and they were just hitting back and forth. They weren&#8217;t expecting anyone else so the four of us ended up playing together. They even gave us pointers and feedback. It was so much fun. That was the last time I played pickleball because the next day the 30-day stay-at-home order for Sedgwick County officially started.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s only been four days since my last pickleball game but it feels like four months. I think the situation is exacerbated by the fact that I&#8217;ve been working from home for the last two weeks. I haven&#8217;t been out of the house since the stay-at-home order began and I&#8217;m absolutely going nuts. I am so ready for all of this to be over and for things to return to normal. Until we are all free again. GNG.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I tried to get as much playing in as I could in the weeks leading up to the 30-day stay-at-home mandate in Sedgwick County. Several of our usual haunts had already shut down and there were only a couple of places left to play. 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